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Archive for August, 2008

The Dance of Anger

This comes from the book “Marriage and the Family. Diversity and Strengths” by David H. Olson who refers us to yet another book “The Dance of Anger” by Harriet Golhor Lerner.
“It is our job to state our thoughts and feelings clearly and to make responsible decisions that are congruent with our values and beliefs. It [...]

You are unique just like everybody else

His name is Mark, he works as a Security Guard, and what he said is not necessary amazing, but it stuck in my mind, it made me remember him.
I haven’t done anything unusual to him, I just talked and I guess he maxed out on his patience and he said:
“I am not that intellectual.  I [...]

Chinatown as a “film noir”

The film “Chinatown” is a “film noir” because its subject matter revolves about fatality and futility of will, and this theme is supported by very effective visual techniques. No matter how hard the charactres try, they are powerless to overcome the obstacltes and unwritten rules. The main character, Jake Gittes, tries to protect his reputation, [...]

Film Noir

Film Noir (literally, black cinema) is a style defined primarily in terms of light – or the lack of it. This style typified a variety of American genres in the 1940s and early 1950s. Noir is a world of night and shadows. Its milieu is almost exclusively urban. The style is profuse in images of [...]

It is a problem

I have actually met people who know what “Art of Reframing” is.  It is quite simple.  Simple substitution of a word changes everything.  Like what? Like meaning.
For example,
It is a problem ==> It is an opportunity.
It is a good substitution; however, when you start to substitute the word “problem” with the word “opportunity” every time, [...]

What colour is your parachute?

Blue and Orange.  I stand by my choice.
I am searching for the place where I belong.  I am not particularly successful.  It is amazing, but it brings no money. Not yet.  Last year, I attended a career exploration workshop.  I did not last there long.  They kicked me out.  That was the first time.  When [...]

All men are garbage

“All men are garbage!”
When I heard that I was astounded.  True of false?  You tell me.  However, the woman who said that all men were garbage wanted a man.  ??? Huh? Not just anybody, but a lawyer, a doctor or somebody like that.  Do you get the point?  Not my point, not the Zero one.  [...]

What is your point?

I had a friend.  Not for very long.  She thought or she liked to think that she was tenacious.  Our friendship did not last long.  Not even a couple of weeks.  But I remembered her for a lot of reasons.  She used to ask the question “What is your point?” when anyone told a joke.  [...]

Signs

I often ask the question “What is your sign?”  Most people assume that I ask for an zodiac sign.  Here it comes — “Power of Assumption”.  I assume and other people assume, our assumptions rarely coincide and here it comes – miscommunication.  Or call it Mis – Assumption.  Take your pick.
So, I kept asking for [...]

Tolerance

When Tolerance was being distributed…
Scorpio came first. He asked what Tolerance was and whether it could be used for torture.  Having heard the answer, he grew gloomy, wrote down something in his black notebook and left, waving his whip.
Capricorn did not think it was respectable enough for him to be seen pushing his way through [...]

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