In a Nutshell

it is also the perfect tool for deception: When you mirror your enemies, doing exactly as they do, they cannot figure out your strategy.  The Mirror Effect mocks and humiliates them, making them overreact.  By holding up a mirror to their psyches, you seduce them with the illusion that you share their values; by holding up a mirror to their actions, you teach them a lesson.  Few can resist the power of the Mirror Effect.

“48 Laws of Power” by Robert Greene

A lesson in Seduction

In 1652 the recently widowed Baroness Mancini moved her family from Rome to Paris, where she could count on the influence and protection of her brother Cardinal Mazarin, the French Prime Minister.  Of the baroness’s five daughters, four dazzled the court with their beauty and high spirits.  These infamously charming nieces of Cardinal Mazarin became known as the Mazarinettes, and soon found themselves invited to all the most important court functions.

One daughter, Marie Mancini, did not share this good fortune, for she lacked the beauty and grace of her sisters – who, along with her mother and even Cardinal Mazarin, eventually came to dislike her, for they felt she spoiled the family image.  They tried to persuade her to enter a convent, where she would be less of an embarrassment, but she refused.  Instead she applied herself to her studies, learning Latin and Greek, perfecting her French, and practicing her musical skills. On the rare occasions when her family would let her attend court affairs, she trained herself to be an artful listener, sizing people up for their weaknesses and hidden desires.  And when she finally met the future King Louis XIV, in 1657 (Louis was seventeen years old, Marie eighteen), she decided that to spite her family and uncle, she would find a way to make this young man fall in love with her.

This was a seemingly impossible task for such a plain-looking girl, but Marie studied the future king closely.  She noticed that her sisters’ frivolity did not please him, and she sensed that he loathed the scheming and petty politicking that went on all around him.  She saw that he had a romantic nature – he read adventure novels, insisted on marching at the head of his armies, and had high ideals and a passion for glory.  The court did not feed these fantasies of his; it was a banal, superficial world that bored him.

The key to Louis’s heart, Marie saw, would be to construct a mirror reflecting his fantasies and his youthful yearnings for glory and romance.  To begin with she immersed herself in the romantic novels, poems, and plays that she knew the young king read voraciously.  When Louis began to engage her in conversation, to his delight she would talk of the things that stirred his soul – not this fashion or that piece of gossip, but rather courtly love, the deeds of great knights, the nobility of past kings and heroes.  She fed his thirst for glory by creating an image of an august, superior king whom he could aspire to become.  She stirred his imagination.

As the future Sun King spent more and more time in Marie’s presence, it eventually became clear that he had fallen in love with the least likely young woman of the court.  To the horror of her sisters and mother, he showered Marie Mancini with attention.  He brought her along on his military campaigns, and made a show of stationing her where she could watch as he marched into battle.  He even promised that he would marry her and make her queen.

Mazarin, however, would never allow the king to marry his niece, a woman who could bring France no diplomatic or royal alliances.  Louis had to marry a princess of Spain or Austria.  In 1658 Louis succumbed to the pressure and agreed to break off the first romantic involvement of his life.  He did so with much regret, and at the end of his life he acknowledged that he never loved anyone as much as Marie Mancini.

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