In a Nutshell

A clear conscience is usually the sign of a bad memory.

So, I met this guy from LavaLife in person. He was all about respect.  That is his favourite (f-word).  I am normally about honesty and my f-word is friendship.

Let me give him a nickname – Capricorn 1144.  He also kept repeating his mantra “Don’t tell me, show me” which made sense in a way, but still was odd.  I had a mixed feeling about him and as usual instead of trusting my intuition; I was going to rely on my mind and reason.  Well, never, ever again.  Intuition first, mind and reason last.  He had good qualities among which the one I especially look for in people – the sense of humour.  However, what he was looking for – was not me.  I would describe it like that:

“Wanted: meaningful overnight relationship.”  He put it “no strings attached, respectful fun.” 

My problem: I want too much from guys, I am too intense.  His problem: bad timing.  Ok, enough said.

 One of the topics we discussed, why guys behave like assholes and he said, “Men are scum”.  He said that I should be very careful.  I said that all I was asking for was honesty.  Don’t let me wait and guess what the hell you wanted.  Call me and say it to my face.  Whatever it is.  So, when we parted on that day and it was only one date, he said, “I will (emphasis on “will”) call you.”

 He did not.

 And now is the story of what came next. (to be continued)

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Posted on July 26th, 2009 under My Lava Life • Tags: all men are garbage, capricorn, conscience, f-words, honesty, LavaLife, memory, promises, respect, tolerance. • • RSS 2.0 feed • Leave a response, or trackback