Friendly Fire: Capricorn 1144 versus Halloween Girl 42. Part I
Date: Fri, 26 Jun 2009 17:33:42 -0700
From: Halloween Girl 42
Subject: A question
To: Capricorn 1144
| Dear Capricorn: I thought when you select a nickname “RESPECT for BOTH” it means respect for both. Maybe my judgment is totally off. When you said with such emphasis “I will (keyword) call you”, you meant it. I guess; it is your infamous bad timing again.
I give you the benefit of the doubt, of course. You do not owe me anything, but if I did something wrong or you just did not like me, I would rather prefer if you said it to my face.
It is up to you. I did like you, but then again you said it yourself “I sure do know how to pick “the right” guys”.
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From: Capricorn 1144>
Subject: An Answer
To: Halloween Girl 42
Received: Saturday, June 27, 2009, 8:59 AM
Halloween Girl,
I have not promised you anything other than being honest. I said I would try to call you and as I said from the start, I was whom I said I was when we met and we shared some fun kissable moments.
I have had other things on my mind and didn’t want to contact you until I was ready to follow through with meeting again.
Perhaps I am not as available as you would like, so maybe you should move on to another guy. I was looking for some “no strings attached” kind of sensual fun, but the expectation of you now wondering where I am, is simply not what I want.
Best of luck with everything!
-Capricorn-
Date: Sat, 27 Jun 2009 12:30:50 -0700
From: Halloween Girl 42
Subject: Re: An Answer
To: Capricorn 1144
| Thank you for your honesty. You see, it is not that difficult to resolve miscommunication. I will give you my view of the situation too and I could not care less whether you read it or delete straight away.
1. First of all you tend to forget what you say. Old age? You said “I will (emphasis on will) call you. You did not say when. That is true. The first day you said “don’t try to sell me” and could not remember it for the life of yours either. I do not really care.
2. I do not wonder where you are. I could not care less. Besides, I decided that I will go with you into the next stage anyway. Not because you might turn out a bad lover. Because you made me feel insecure about myself. It is not a pleasant feeling and there is no need for it.
3. Of course, I moved on. What do you think I am a moron? I never stopped. I just meet guys and believe me there is big enough supply of available men. What made you think that I would sit and commit to you in the first place? You are not that cute. You are not that special.
4. The worst part is, of course, that you are running away, but open your eyes – nobody is pursuing.
At the end of the day you get exactly what you want. I know I do.
All you really had to do is make a simple phone call. You cannot commit even to a telephone call.
But at the end, if you care to read to the end, which I doubt, I still want to say that I enjoyed your company that day and I appreciated your sense of humour. You have good qualities. But you haven’t grown up yet. So you said. I am a very good listener. You could not read me. You had no idea what hit you.
For me, it is another learning experience. Thank you for giving me this lesson. When you say men are scum, you believe it because… you can finish that sentence on your own.
Good luck, I hope you will as happy some day as I am now.
Halloween Girl |
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Posted on July 26th, 2009 under My Lava Life • Tags: capricorn, danger zone, frienly fire, honesty, promises, respect, Scorpio, tolerance, перестрелка. •
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