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		<title>&#8230;a fresh appetite for being alone&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.altrealm.com/english/art-of-reframing/2010-12-30/a-fresh-appetite-for-being-alone/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Dec 2010 04:42:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Svetlana</dc:creator>
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And isn’t your life extremely flat with nothing whatever to grumble at! (W.S. Gilbert)
We must, however, acknowledge, as it seems to me, that man with all his noble qualities&#8230; still bears in his bodily frame the indelible stamp of his lowly origin. (Charles Darwin)
The more humanity advances, the more it is degraded. (Gustave Flaubert).
Since I [...]]]></description>
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<blockquote><p>And isn’t your life extremely flat with nothing whatever to grumble at! (W.S. Gilbert)</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>We must, however, acknowledge, as it seems to me, that man with all his noble qualities&#8230; still bears in his bodily frame the indelible stamp of his lowly origin. (Charles Darwin)</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>The more humanity advances, the more it is degraded. (Gustave Flaubert).</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Since I no longer expect anything from mankind except madness, meanness, and mendacity; egotism, cowardice, and self-delusion, I have stopped being a misanthrope. (Irving Layton)</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>The world is populated in the main by people who should not exist. (George Bernard Shaw)</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>I only go out to get me a fresh appetite for being alone. (Lord Byron)</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>The Bible tells us to love our neighbours, and also to love our enemies; probably because they are generally the same people.  (G. K. Chesterton)</p></blockquote>
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		<title>&#8220;I WILL&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Oct 2010 04:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Svetlana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Leo Love Mystery
The Cancerian Adolescent soul is transformed with brilliant suddenness into a symbolic Teenager, brought by the Leo vibration into the first expression of self-confidence and pride in individuality.  Now the soul knows (or assumes) who he is – or who she is – as Leo feels an even stronger pull of the [...]]]></description>
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<h3>The Leo Love Mystery</h3>
<p>The Cancerian Adolescent soul is transformed with brilliant suddenness into a symbolic Teenager, brought by the Leo vibration into the first expression of self-confidence and pride in individuality.  Now the soul knows (or assumes) who he is – or who she is – as Leo feels an even stronger pull of the masculine positive Day Forces and the Fire Element than was felt on the Aries level.  The world belongs to the Lion – or the Lioness – and so the Leonine “Teenager” gazes at his or her image in the mirror, admires what is seen and makes the noble vow “I WILL.”  Summer has come into full bloom of furious beauty with lazy afternoons and bright sunshine as Leo moves into SELF consciousness from the polarity meaning of Cancer’s <em>self-consciousness.</em></p>
<p>The idealism of youth stirs the Lion’s heart and sets the blood afire with the dawning knowledge of sexuality, two powerful urges that bring private inner doubts of worth, well hidden beneath outward vanity.  The Leo soul knows what to do with this second experience as a Fixed Organizer, using it wit apparent confidence to lecture others, take charge of his or her own life and rule over those who need Leo’s protection.  Yet the Leo man or woman, like the actual teenager, still seeks reassurance in the form of flattery, still cringes secretly when ridiculed, because he is not quite yet a man – she is not quite yet a woman – for all the surface sureness.</p>
<p>The soul has already passed through the painful experiences of infancy, babyhood, childhood and adolescence, so Leo leads with sympathetic consideration for those who are more vulnerable.  The soul in its Leo expression has no real desire to crush the helpless.  Generosity of spirit was carved into Leo’s memory by the tears wept through the Aries, Taurus, Gemini, and Cancer levels.  However, although Leos have learned to tolerate and forgive enemies, they have not yet learned to respect the wisdom of elders.  Like the real teenager, Leos think they know all the answers, and are impatient with those who question their new worldly knowledge.  The Leo soul worships the Sun, for the Sun is Leo’s ruler, the source of all Life – and of his or her Leonine strength.  Leo admires and is admired, loves and is loved.  As social life begins, the joys of romance begin to bud……then finally to flower.  Puppy love is warm and bright, bringing to the Leo “Teenager” both elation and disappointment.  The dizzy power of his manhood (or womanhood) gives to Leo a sense of personal dignity and importance – through the opposite sex.  No longer must the Lions and Lionesses be restricted by the stifling authority of parental guidance.  The bridge from childhood to adulthood has been spanned.  The responsibilities of maturity are sensed, but still haven’t become a burden.  Life is all sunlight, the gloomy Past is behind, the miracle of the Future still ahead &#8212; and the Present is a time for fun and relaxation.  Leo decides arrogantly that the world needs his newfound wisdom, and is more than willing to give it.  Only through exercising unquestioned command over younger children (the weaker and not yet liberated souls) can a Leo man or woman in this experience retain the necessary image of superiority and self-respect.</p>
<p>Leo’s positive qualities are warmth, generosity, nobility, strength, loyalty, leadership and a soothing, gentle tenderness – the protective charisma of the older brother or sister, of the strong toward the weak.  Expressed in their negative form they become arrogance, false pride, vanity, tyranny, haughtiness …and romantic promiscuity.</p>
<p>To the Leo in the symbolic Teenager stage of development, love is shimmering romance, the song-of-songs, the fulfillment of all ideals and beauty.  Leo is “in love with love” and with himself – herself.  Lions and Lionesses give affection generously only because it brings such pleasure to be so royally beneficent, demanding gratitude and respect, demanding gratitude and respect from the beloved, outraged if love requires that they humble themselves……as yet unable to comprehend its depth, or the beauty of its sacrifice of the “self”.</p>
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		<title>You Can No More Win a War Than You Can Win an Earthquake</title>
		<link>http://www.altrealm.com/english/chapters/2010-09-24/you-can-no-more-win-a-war-than-you-can-win-an-earthquake/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2010 04:42:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Svetlana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Source: http://al-el.clan.su/
Wisdom
Those who are skilled in combat do not become angered,
those who are skilled at winning do not become afraid.
Thus the wise win before they fight, while the ignorant fight to win.
~Zhuge Liang
 
 
A wise man gets more use from his enemies than a fool from his friends.
~Baltasar Gracian
 
 
He who knows not [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1539" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 530px"><a href="http://al-el.clan.su/"><img class="size-full wp-image-1539" title="Russian War Hero" src="http://www.altrealm.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Bogatur-Who-Won-without-fighting.jpg" alt="A war does not determine who is right, only who is left." width="520" height="506" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">A war does not determine who is right, only who is left.</p></div>
<p>Source: http://al-el.clan.su/</p>
<h1>Wisdom</h1>
<blockquote><p><strong>Those who are skilled in combat do not become angered,</strong></p>
<p><strong>those who are skilled at winning do not become afraid.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Thus the wise win before they fight, while the ignorant fight to win.</strong></p>
<p align="right"><strong>~Zhuge Liang</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
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<p><strong>A wise man gets more use from his enemies than a fool from his friends.</strong></p>
<p align="right"><strong>~Baltasar Gracian</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>He who knows not and knows that he knows not is ignorant. Teach him. He who knows not and knows not that he knows not is a fool. Shun him. He who knows and knows not that he knows is asleep. Wake him.</strong></p>
<p align="right"><strong>~Anonymous</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>War does not determine who is right &#8211; only who is left.</strong></p>
<p align="right"><strong>~Bertrand Russell</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>A great war leaves the country with three armies &#8211; an army of cripples, an army of mourners, and an army of thieves.</strong></p>
<p align="right"><strong>~German Proverb</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>You can no more win a war than you can win an earthquake.</strong></p>
<p align="right"><strong>~Jeanette Rankin</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>It is forbidden to kill; therefore all murderers are punished unless they kill in large numbers and to the sound of trumpets.</strong></p>
<p align="right"><strong>~Voltaire, War</strong></p>
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		<title>About Friendship</title>
		<link>http://www.altrealm.com/english/chapters/2008-09-02/about-friendship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 18:48:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Svetlana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is comes from the book that I am currently reading &#8220;The 48 laws of Power&#8221; by Robert Greene.  The book is fascinating.
2nd law of power &#8221; Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies.&#8221;
&#8220;To have a good enemy, choose a friend: he knows where to strike.&#8221; Diane de Poitiers, 1499-1566, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is comes from the book that I am currently reading &#8220;The 48 laws of Power&#8221; by Robert Greene.  The book is fascinating.</p>
<p>2nd law of power &#8221; Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;To have a good enemy, choose a friend: he knows where to strike.&#8221; Diane de Poitiers, 1499-1566, Mistress of Henri II of France</p>
<p>&#8220;Every time I bestow a vacant office I make a hundred discontented persons and one ingrate.&#8221; Louis XIV, 1638 &#8211; 1715</p>
<p>&#8220;Pick up a bee from kindness, and learn the limitations of kindness.&#8221; Sufi proverb</p>
<p>&#8220;Men are more ready to repay an injury than a benefit, because gratitude is a burden and revenge a pleasure.&#8221; Tacitus, c. A.D. 55-120</p>
<p>&#8220;Know how to use enemies for your own profit. You must learn to grab a sword not by its blade, which would cut you, but by the handle, which allows you to defend yourself. The wise man profits more from his enemies, that a fool from his friends.&#8221; Baltasar Gracian, 1601-1658</p>
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