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Thank you, TheMole! But I actually meant meet as in face to face. It may sound frightening, but it should not be, people with similar interests usually like each other. The differences between film lovers would be what kind of films we like. You can check out my films. Well, I suggest that we meet in Toronto (I mean people who live here). We probably meet each other anyway without knowing it. Anyone goes to the TIFF?

Talk about rejection?! Nobody wants to see me? Really?

Sorry Kallinik, your idea won’t fly :

1) I like to hide behind my computer.
2) I hate getting rejectd.
3) Book clubs are scarce because its more convientient to discuss it online
4) A place like you suggest already exists; it’s called a bar.
5) Too many girls would show up just wanting to talk; too many men would show up looking for romance.
6) I might meet someone that did not like the Mortal Kombat series and I’d probably get into a fight with them.

Wentai, thank you for your reply! It is so nice of you to give me points – I love it. You can hide behind your computer, I am not going to hunt you down. Getting rejected is not a big deal, really. I will tell you a story about rejection. It happened to me today and I am fine.

First of all I am a woman. My age? Does it matter? Am I attractive? Does it really matter? In my own opinion, I looked my absolute worse today. I did not beautify myself today and I was going home from the gym, wearing gym clothes. Wait, it gets better. I meet a guy. I smile. He smiles back. We get into a conversation. I give him a handshake. A hug. Conversation. Attention, guys (as in males)!!! I am already in the fifth gear and he gets a hard-on. No BS. True. I ask for sex. Do I get it?

I don’t really need a book club, but my favourite store is Chapters, I frequently go there. And I do not go to bars, because I cannot drink too much (migraines) and I do not really like noise. Besides, I know to many alcoholics to risk to end up with one again. Thank you very much. Been there, done that.

People say about me that I am too intelligent, too bright, too overwhelming and they keep rejecting me. So what? What do I do? Nothing, I enjoy being myself. I read, I watch films and I do whatever I want. I am not too intelligent for myself. I am an introvert. I recharge my batteries when I am alone. I can handle rejection. So can everybody else. No big deal. I guess, see in Chapters. I mean the guys (males) who have what it takes. And no, I am not going to ask for sex again. It was a limited time offer. I make the rules and play my games. Otherwise, it is no fun!!!

The guy may have rejected you because he already had a girlfriend. Maybe you found one of the good ones that refuses to cheat. If so, it doesn’t reflect badly on you.

Being an introvert is good. In the words of the redoubtable Jack Vance, I am a monomaniac. (Mono is Latin for the number one, and maniac is Latin for taking something to an extreme). Being alone has its advantages. Peace and tranquility for one.

I too dated an alchoholic once and when that woman got drinking she yelled louder than my old man did when I was a kid. Holy crap that lady had a pair of lungs on her after the ninth or tenth drink. I dont date alcholics either; unfortunately that severely limits my dating pool where I live.

Hope your movie discussion club goes well. Remember to encourage others to talk about their favourite movie experiences; I think you’ll be surprised at the various stories you get. Keep me posted — and good luck!

It is quite the opposite. The guy who rejected me was simply a loser! I went out with him anyway to and had lots of fun figuring him out. Oh, boy! Was I blind or was I blind? He was my number 3. I would not even call it sex! When I have time, I write a whole story about it and we all have a good laugh about it! However, why my potential number 2 was thinking how to respond to “yes or no” question (register for problem-solving course!), there comes a guy who has the guts to say yes despite the fact that he does not want cheat on his girlfriend!!! I was too powerful and too sexy! Go figure! You see, I am unique just like everybody else. I kept my integrity (f… that) and I was loyal to my husband for 15 bloody years. I what did I get? Abuse and rejection, rejection and abuse. Well, it took me only 21 years since I met him to actually go and do it with another guy! Well, I deserved what I got. So does everybody else. If you settle for shit, you deserve. Now, I quickly went to number 4. That will be another story.

You see, it is very simple. I stopped guessing what other people want. I could not care less. Not anymore. I accept my right to behave the way I want and I get what I want.

Sounds good. That’s what I’m going to do from now on. Tough luck if the other person does not care for it. I vow to spend more time looking for the remote control than for the clitoris.